You were designed by the hand and love of God. We were designed by God to be loved by Him and to love Him in return.
Emotions by themselves aren't right or wrong, it is what we do with them that make them good or bad. We can work on finding the underlying causes of feelings that effect our life with God. These issues can be the red light on our dashboard telling us to pull over and find the problem.
Everything you do is directly related to your growth in Christ. Your thoughts, actions, goals, behaviors - good and bad - relationships, work, finances….it’s all spiritual and all reflective of your growth. Your spiritual maturity, or lack of it, shows in every one of these areas.